Judd Foxman faces some unfortunate circumstances. His wife has been cheating on him, happens to be carrying his child, and is planning to leave him. And if that’s not enough, his father passes away, leaving a single dying wish: that his (dysfunctional) family sit shiva for him.
Over the next seven days of shiva, Judd, his mother, and his three siblings are confined to the family home and forced to confront the unsettled rivalries of their youth. By calling upon one another’s colorful sex lives (or lack thereof ) to provoke each other, the siblings reveal long-standing grudges and secrets, providing a comical yet remarkably real shiva house scene filled with an entertaining group of guests. For seven long, painful days, we follow the Foxman family, until the siblings’ frustration, anger, and disappointment ultimately transforms into love for each other and newly developed respect for their father.
Tropper’s characters all have distinct personalities and realistic interactions. Readers will feel as if they themselves are in the Foxman home paying a shiva call, wondering how to respond appropriately to one vulgar comment after another. Tropper’s novel is a light and funny read that will surely resonate with anyone who has wondered about the sanity of his or her own Jewish family.
Fiction
This is Where I Leave You
- Review
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– November 14, 2011
Rebecca Blady is a former intern at the Jewish Book Council.
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