Non­fic­tion

I Seek a Kind Per­son: My Father, Sev­en Chil­dren, and the Adverts that Helped Them Escape the Holocaust

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By – April 7, 2025

In August, 1938, a clas­si­fied ad in The Man­ches­ter Guardian read: I seek a kind per­son who will edu­cate my intel­li­gent Boy, aged 11, Vien­nese of good family.”

The ad — and oth­ers like it, which ran along­side the cross­word puz­zle, radio pro­gram­ming and com­pet­ing pitch­es for stamps and musi­cal instru­ments — was placed in the British news­pa­per by Leo Borg­er, a Vien­nese Jew. It was answered by Nan and Regi­nald Bin­g­ley, teach­ers in Caernar­fon, Wales.Borger’s son, Robert (known as Bob­by), was tak­en in by the Bin­g­leys and lived with them through­out the war, thus escap­ing the fate of the tens of thou­sands of Aus­tri­an Jews who were sent to Nazi con­cen­tra­tion camps. The fam­i­ly was an open tap of kind­ness,” and sup­port­ed Bob­by until he reached adulthood.

The author of this book, Julian Borg­er, is Robert’s son. Coin­ci­den­tal­ly, he is now a prize-win­ning reporter for the same news­pa­per — now The Guardian—where his grand­fa­ther placed that fate­ful ad. When he dis­cov­ered his father’s his­to­ry, Borg­er was inspired to learn more about the unusu­al ad and oth­ers like it, which ran in the peri­od between the Anschluss on March 12, 1938 and the Kinder­trans­port, which began on Decem­ber 10 of that year. The ads were like telegrams from anoth­er age: urgent and com­pressed,” he writes. 

After the Anschluss, a coiled spring of hatred was unleashed on the city.” Adult Jews were forced to scrub pave­ments and walls with tooth­brush­es; chil­dren were expelled from schools and beat­en by Brown­shirts. Jew­ish fam­i­lies des­per­ate­ly sought a safe haven for their children. 

Some of the chil­dren who found spon­sors, includ­ing Bob­by, left Aus­tria accom­pa­nied by a par­ent. Oth­er children’s expe­ri­ences were not as hap­py as Bobby’s: they found sanc­tu­ary, but some­times a bit­ter one,” as they were lone­ly and iso­lat­ed, and at times bore the brunt of antisemitism.

Intrigued by his father’s jour­ney, Bor­gen set out to find oth­er chil­dren (and their hosts and descen­dants) whose fam­i­lies had placed Guardian ads. His assid­u­ous report­ing took him around the world. Gertrude Langer, whose ad appeared on the same day as Bobby’s, was four­teen when she was sent to Maid­en­head. By 1940, she was in Shang­hai, through the good offices of Ho Feng-Shan, a Chi­nese con­sul gen­er­al in Vien­na, who defied the orders of his supe­ri­or and issued 2,000 visas to Jews. Ho is hon­ored at Yad Vashem as one of the Right­eous Among Nations.” The father of Fred Schwartz nev­er received a response to his ad, so Fred joined his old­er broth­er Frits in mak­ing a dar­ing escape to Hol­land. When the Nazis invad­ed in May 1940, the broth­ers were sent to West­er­bork and then to Birke­nau — from where they escaped just as the Red Army was approach­ing. George Man­dler, grew up near the Danube Canal mere kilo­me­ters away from Robert Borg­er. He end­ed up in New York and in May 1944 enlist­ed in the U.S. Army. Man­dler became one of the Ritchie Boys, the Ger­man and Aus­tri­an refugees who used their lan­guage skills to gath­er valu­able intel­li­gence behind ene­my lines. 

Because Borg­er launched his inves­ti­ga­tion after his father’s death by sui­cide and decades after the war, he had to make gar­gan­tu­an efforts to track down the sur­vivors, some­times with only the name of the fam­i­ly that placed an ad. His abil­i­ty to piece togeth­er so many dif­fer­ent sto­ries is remark­able. Though the children’s lives did not inter­sect, the com­po­si­tion of the chap­ters often includes parts of sev­er­al of their his­to­ries. It may take a sec­ond read to keep each sto­ry straight.

Borg­er shows great curios­i­ty, tenac­i­ty and com­pas­sion as he inter­views sur­vivors and their descen­dants. They tell him they are hes­i­tant to call them­selves vic­tims of the Holo­caust because they didn’t suf­fer like the chil­dren who endured the ghet­tos or the camps. Yet when Bobby’s Welsh fos­ter moth­er learned he had com­mit­ted sui­cide, she told his son, Robert was the Nazis’ last vic­tim. They got to him in the end.”

Elaine Elin­son is coau­thor of the award-win­ning Wher­ev­er There’s a Fight: How Run­away Slaves, Suf­frag­ists, Immi­grants, Strik­ers, and Poets Shaped Civ­il Lib­er­ties in Cal­i­for­nia.

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