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– February 15, 2012
Sondra, the narrator and main character, lives in a small Kansas town in the 1950’s with very few Jewish people. As she enters junior high, she and her cousin Howie are the only Jews in her class. Sondra has a special bond with Howie. Even though Sondra’s religious observance is not very extensive, she is upset with Howie when he starts to date non- Jewish girls and becomes identified with those who are both popular and Christian. Sondra’s parents recognize the importance of having Sondra meet other Jewish teenagers. Therefore, they send her to live with cousins in Kansas City during the weekends. While there, Sondra meets and socializes with a large group of Jewish peers, including a girl named Debbie, who becomes one of her closest friends. Debbie and Sondra’s Shabbat experiences move Sondra towards Orthodoxy. By the time the girls are sophomores in college, they go to Jerusalem together to study. Sondra becomes engaged to a young man who is also a b’aal tshuvah while visiting Jerusalem. Unfortunately, the author writes with a hidden agenda. Her writing is neither fresh nor creative, and her dialogue is wooden. She repeatedly gives a biased view of the positives of being an observant Jew while criticizing other ways to live Jewishly. In one part of the book, she infers that Sondra’s cousin Howie and his Gentile girlfriend were killed in a car accident because Howie was dating outside the faith and was not observing Shabbat. Her heavy-handed approach and focus on becoming “frum” detracts from the other messages of the book. Ages 12 and up.
Marge Kaplan is a retired English as a Second Language teacher. She is a consultant for the children’s literature group for the Roseville, MN school system and is a storyteller of Jewish tales.