Non­fic­tion

Strangers to Our­selves: Unset­tled Minds and the Sto­ries That Make Us

  • From the Publisher
September 14, 2023

The acclaimed, award-win­ning New York­er writer Rachel Aviv offers a ground­break­ing explo­ration of men­tal ill­ness and the mind, and illu­mi­nates the star­tling con­nec­tions between diag­no­sis and identity. 

Strangers to Our­selves pos­es fun­da­men­tal ques­tions about how we under­stand our­selves in peri­ods of cri­sis and dis­tress. Draw­ing on deep, orig­i­nal report­ing as well as unpub­lished jour­nals and mem­oirs, Rachel Aviv writes about peo­ple who have come up against the lim­its of psy­chi­atric expla­na­tions for who they are. She fol­lows an Indi­an woman cel­e­brat­ed as a saint who lives in heal­ing tem­ples in Ker­ala; an incar­cer­at­ed moth­er vying for her children’s for­give­ness after recov­er­ing from psy­chosis; a man who devotes his life to seek­ing revenge upon his psy­cho­an­a­lysts; and an afflu­ent young woman who, after a decade of defin­ing her­self through her diag­no­sis, decides to go off her meds because she doesn’t know who she is with­out them. Ani­mat­ed by a pro­found sense of empa­thy, Aviv’s grip­ping explo­ration is refract­ed through her own account of liv­ing in a hos­pi­tal ward at the age of six and meet­ing a fel­low patient with whom her life runs parallel―until it no longer does. 

Aviv asks how the sto­ries we tell about men­tal dis­or­ders shape their course in our lives―and our iden­ti­ties, too. Chal­leng­ing the way we under­stand and talk about ill­ness, her account is a tes­ta­ment to the porous­ness and resilience of the mind.

Discussion Questions