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– November 7, 2011
This book is unique. No other book has focused on women who have no children but enjoy the role of being an aunt. It is written for an audience of middle and upper class women who have the sophistication and financial resources to make use of its contents. It is encyclopedic in the breadth of information it provides. The introductory part of the book is about the women who fill these roles, i.e. first time aunts, experienced great aunts, long distance aunts, celeb aunts (Oprah Winfrey), fantasy aunts (Auntie Em from the Wizard of Oz). Then it focuses on the needs of parents and children from infancy to age five and aunts’ interactions with them. How to help the expecting mother when she is pregnant, showers for the coming child, care of the newborn, developmental charts, and Internet and library resources are only a few of the subjects that are included. It also addresses the psychological needs of the “savvy auntie” such as her feelings about not having children, how to answer why she may not be married and how to stand up against the second-hand treatment she may experience. Toward the end of the book, there are specifics about both the possible financial role aunts may have in the lives of the nieces and nephews and what steps to take if an aunt is asked to become a legal guardian. The author does an excellent job of making this book valuable for both aunts and parents as well as bolstering the egos of a group of women who are often unappreciated.
Marge Kaplan is a retired English as a Second Language teacher. She is a consultant for the children’s literature group for the Roseville, MN school system and is a storyteller of Jewish tales.