Rachel Friedman believes that being Jewish means accepting the need to follow certain rules — an assumption that puts her in a tough spot. “Most of the rules aren’t written down anywhere,” she says, “but everyone knows that you have to follow them.” She is a bright and outgoing girl who loves being Jewish — well, at least the fun parts of it. But beyond eating matzo ball soup, dressing up for Purim, and celebrating Hanukkah, Rachel struggles with some of Judaism’s demands, demands that are made all the more challenging by her ADHD.
Rachel lives with her widowed father and her older brother, Aaron. While her dad is compassionate and understanding, raising a child who tests his limits is hard. Behaving appropriately during synagogue services is difficult for Rachel, whose elaborate daydreams about gymnastics keep her from sitting quietly.
Eager to attend an event with her favorite celebrity gymnast, Rachel makes a deal with her dad: she will follow rules without exception for one full week in order to earn this privilege. But Rachel realizes that this is easier said than done.
When Rachel’s disappointment with one of her father’s decisions leads her to break rules with total abandon, Rabbi Ellen turns the volatile situation into a learning experience. She is a true teacher, leading Rachel to understand Jewish rules through careful explanation and thought-provoking questions. Rabbi Ellen goes on to tell Rachel, whose family is not traditionally observant, that the process of questioning is even embedded in Jewish law.
The first in a new series, Rachel Friedman Breaks the Rules is a fast-paced illustrated chapter book with Jewish practice and values at its center. It features challah braiding, a conversation about the Talmud, and a comment that Shabbat seems less exciting than other holidays because it happens every week. Readers follow Rachel as she tries to accommodate the requests of the adults who care for her while still staying true to herself. The illustrator’s black-and-white drawings enhance our reading experience, depicting Rachel, her family, and her friends with realism and humor.
Emily Schneider writes about literature, feminism, and culture for Tablet, The Forward, The Horn Book, and other publications, and writes about children’s books on her blog. She has a Ph.D. in Romance Languages and Literatures.