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– February 24, 2012
Ben-Zvi’s collection of seventy-eight folktales focuses on relationships between men and women in nine sections, including “Marriages Made In Heaven,” “Trust And Betrayal,” and “Daughters.” Stories draw mainly from the Tales for Each Month series published in Hebrew between 1961 and 1978 by the Israel Folklore Archives at the University of Haifa. These stories are told by immigrants who hail from Tunis, Moldavia, Babylonia, Cracow, Persia, Palestine, Morocco, Prague, Turkey, India, and Romania. Some, like the title story, where the bride uses the command from Deuteronomy that says a man should be free to rejoice with his new wife for one year to hold off the Angel of Death, appear in many other places. Others, like the story of the wife who saves her husband’s honor by showing different sides of the same melon so her husband’s guest will not know that they are so poor, may be new to readers. The collection suffers from not knowing its audience, however. On one hand, stories are simplified with notes that explain traditions and Talmudic expectations of courtship and marriage for newcomers to Jewish custom. On the other, the decision to include some obscure variants and unsavory stories limit the appeal of the book. It is hard to imagine sharing a story where the husband beats his wife when she won’t stop pestering him or another in which a rich man is forced to support his son-inlaw whose ugly wife has not had a child. Language includes some archaic phrasings, such as “Therefore never think there is no one to witness your troth,” in the middle of plainer text. And yet, folklorists might welcome a Moroccan version of what the clever wife holds dearest and the scholarly inclusion of motif, folktale type, and IFA variant numbers. Bibliography, indexes, notes.
Sharon Elswit, author of The Jewish Story Finder and a school librarian for forty years in NYC, now resides in San Francisco, where she shares tales aloud in a local JCC preschool and volunteers with 826 Valencia to help students write their own stories and poems.