Shelly Jay Shore is a writer, dig­i­tal strate­gist, and non­prof­it fundrais­er. Her writ­ing on queer Jew­ish iden­ti­ty has been pub­lished by Autostrad­dle, Hey Alma, and the Bisex­u­al Resource Cen­ter. She lives in New York with her part­ner, where she attempts to wran­gle two large dogs and two small chil­dren. Rules for Ghost­ing is her debut novel.